Oh... couldnt slp well yesterday!
slept abt 5am in the morning...
but woke up at 9am...
yesterday when to Imm to meet up with Shunli!
one of my long lost friend...
ha ha
hmm... ya he still have that typical smile with his mi mi yan!
ha ha kinda miss that!
but he seems skinner than what i saw him in his photos...
must gain back some weight O!
But can see that he went thru alot in life...
his life is exciting...
alot of the memories flashes back...
suddenly i miss DC alot...
n all others...
some might not be that close...now
but we once do stupid things together!
ha... but shunli really age alot...
Now can call him "uncle ah li"
hee hee...
Flipping all my dairy n letters that i receive all this years...
ha..i saw this very neat writing...
guess who?
Uncle shunli!
wah! u wouldnt imagine thats his if u see him in person.
hey, did me & Liru had some lost in memories?
he didnt like me before meh?huh?
Funny? thats not what we remembered leh!(hee hee)
in the dairy u still got wrote "Remember u r someone special to me"
i still remember that u ask rongchang to ask me to the empty classroom?
ha ha... but nevermind cos all this r all sweet sweet little memories i had.
But Come'on Liru... PLS dun ask me question like "what if he(li) like u"
it sound ridiculous...

going thru my letters...i came across this very familiar handwriting
From Thomas(DC)
was in year 2002
the opening starts with
To the woman i love Jing Yi,
the whole letters was wrote in Chinese...
Wo~ his Chinese not bad huh...
somehow after so many years when i look back this letters tears still falls...
in the letters he said he hurt me alot...
his asking for a chance to start all over again...
But y i didnt agree? i dun understand too...
i miss him so much ...
i have miss the chance twice...
he asked me twice the same question...
Time cant turn back...
Now his with a good girl i think...
& i hope...
really hope he loves her... n be happy...
As for me i also hope to have a good man by side that loves me...

Friends first
By John Fischer

The Great Commission is all about making friends.
Now I know Jesus said,
“Therefore, go and make disciples …” (Matthew 28:19 NLT),
but Jesus himself showed that you can’t make a disciple until you first make a friend.
“I no longer call you slaves, because a master doesn’t confide in his slaves.
Now you are my friends,
since I have told you everything the Father told me.” (John 15:15 NLT)

So what Christians have called “witnessing” for some time really
should be more like building relationships.
It’s what you do over the long haul of a relationship that counts so much more than door-to-door canvassing of the neighborhood.

In the movie The Big Kahuna starring Danny DeVito and Kevin Spacey,
a young salesman fresh out of Baptist college goes on his first business trip to a convention with a couple seasoned veterans from his company.
In an attempt to land a CEO (“The Big Kahuna”) of a very large account as a new client,
the young Baptist, played surprisingly close to a real Baptist by Peter Tarrantino,
ends up the unlikely one of the three who has the best shot at talking with the CEO.
But instead of talking about the company he represents and setting up his partners with a meeting, the Baptist ends up spending the whole conversation witnessing to the man about Jesus. When his co-workers find out about this, Spacey goes ballistic. A hot-headed argument ensues between Spacey and the rookie salesman over the place of religion in business, and Danny DeVito, the oldest and wisest of the three, tries to calm them both down and provides some very sensible advice. What he says to the young Baptist should be heard and considered by all Christians. It goes something like this:
“The minute you lay hold of a conversation in order to steer it in a certain direction, it ceases to be a conversation, it’s a sales pitch; and you aren’t a human being anymore, you’re a marketing rep. If you really care about the man, ask him about his kids … his wife … his dreams ...”
It’s the difference between pushing an agenda and truly caring for somebody. If you care about somebody, you want to know what he or she is thinking, what is the person’s hopes and dreams, joys and disappointments – in other words, what are the things that make that person human. Friendship is all about finding common ground, and it is out of this common ground that what is shared will have credibility.

Oh! OH!
Feeling sick today....
think is having stomach flu...
feeling weak!
but still need to go meeting earlier on...
Poor thing!
scare tmr need to take MC!
cos coming friday starts mid year promotion...
still got a numbers of things need me to supervise & settle!
Oh... God i pray for Good health!
HA HA!
i m very delighted since Sunday!
cos one long lost friend msg me!
Guess who is he?
Shunli!
my primary classmate!
Oh... its been 12years le ba.....
we didnt get in contact with one another...
i m so happy to receive his msg...
thru his words...
i can sense that he change alot...
no the old shunli i knew.
But as i tell him i might not understand him much at that time...
cos he seldom talk...
As i look thru his friendster!
oh Gosh!
i saw my little angel!

ha ha...
can u recognize whose angel?(bottom)
ha ha....
thats interesting isnt it!

What does love means....
Love differs from heart to heart,
Love has never been defined since man began,
There is no explantion on what u would call Love.
The meaning of love and being loved?
I don't think anyone can explain it,
love is not something that can be explained
it is a feeling that each and everyone should feel.
love is never tired of waiting;
love is kind;
love has no envy;
love has no high opinion of itself,
love has no pride;
love's ways are ever fair,
it takes no thought for itself;
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
Is all the above true??

Ha ha...
to me love is....

Love is a feeling,
an emotion that cannot be explained.
Either you feel it or you don't.
We call it 'love' because there is no explanation for it.
It is not a rational, predetermined action.
When you can't rationalize that feeling then you call it love.
True love is when one cares about someone else's well being
as much as one cares about one's own.
Making someone else happy is certainly important,
and yet one's own happiness in addition to that
and as a result of that is what genuinely is true.
True love stands together in equality and balance to what is honest,
true and caring and not only about romantic love.
It is a kindness of heart, soul, and mind.
True love can be definited and is also a given,
known and reciprocated when two people "share" in it
Love is a feeling
that only the 2 people involved can understand,
and if you dont understand it yet then just wait.
Don't try to find a meaning for something which you cant.
Love is everywhere it is something to be found and then understand,
not explained.
There is no explaination that is anywhere near what loving someone
and being loved by the same person, truely is.

Yesterday night chat with my friends at msn...
she is confuse now...
with her relationship...
she is together with this guy for 2 weeks
& he met his parents...
& even talk about marriage!
She ask me is it too fast?
But i told Her...
If thats the right person @ the right time @ right plc & u really love him, then it wouldnt consider fast...
But Love differ from heart to heart.

Just Pop up a question in my mind....
What does love means....?
will post my later...

Hoo HO HO!

Change New skin Again!

ha ha...

ok yesterday just got a bad news that

Xiao Lian is transfering to my store...

Huh! OMG! was my first reaction

she will be my staff soon...

together with jenny peh...

so Jenny wong will be out to other dept!

hmm... kinda sad...

cos she is ting hua de...

now chnage one that have been working in popular for 10 over years de old bird

kinda scare i cant handle her...

heard a number of her story too...

scare cant get along well!

u know la old bird ma...

Stress ah!!!!!

have to handle 2 aunties at the same time!

pray hard that everything is fine...

But reynard did told me that actually she is good

just that personailty wise a bit problematic

Nancy my buyer also tell me not to worry...

Haiz...

she will be in asap loh...

really hope everyone esp my dept staff can get along well!!!!

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ok today is another off day...

But need to do appraisal for myself n Jenny Peh!

hmm...

but cant said much abt that cos confidential

ha ha...

ok later going roller blade with my bro again after such a long break

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last sunday went to k Box with Hongyi, Wee Hong & Na na at cine

took some picture there...

everyone had grow up liao hor

Compare the photo of me & hongyi years back!

Before

After

Ha ha...

anyway the next time i see them will be maybe two years after ba! haha

hy said de...

cos they are going army this july!!!!

he will not come out after his "Cool cut"

Woo~ time passes very fast this year!

Its may already!!!!

So this Sunday is Mothers' Day

So i wish My mum... & all others...

"Happy Mother's Day" means moreThan have a happy day.

Within those words lie lots of thingsWe never get to say.
It means I love you first of all,

Then thanks for all you do.

It means you mean a lot to me,

And that I honor you.
But most of all,

I guess it meansThat I am thinking ofYour happiness on this,

your day,

With pleasure and

with love.

Hi everyone!
i m Back!
ok hasnt been blogging for the pass week...
anyone misses me?
HA ha...ok catch a movie last fri after work...
catch it at suntec 11.40pm

Hmm review of the moive:
The next time if I wanna watch a movie, I would definitely not to base on their trailers.. Spidey 3 is the best example.. practically the best part of the movie is in the trailers!! It was kinda boring but the only best part is the Special effects.. I do agreed that this is by far the worst of the 3.. One laid down the foundations for the sequels, two has a great fighting scene.. this one is a little bit too complicated...& too Lengthy...There should be more action than talking.
so... a little disappointment...